How to Help Others -- www.noahhammond.com Today, I am going to be talking about how to help others. Here is what it comes down to. If you help people from a place where you are UNCOMFORTABLE or out of balance yourself, you are most likely ALIGNING with the problem and you are not actually helping them. Helping Others -- Don't Add to the Negative Energy! When somebody is acting the wrong way and it frustrates me, I can't. I am frustrated, therefore I am aligning with the problem. I am aligning with the frustration and so, even if I am coming to help, that's not really helping. It is actually ADDING energy into the problem and while I might fix the problem, I am not helping the other person. So, if somebody's problem makes you uncomfortable or takes you out of alignment from joy, happiness and bliss and you try to offer help, you are not actually helping. Now, the other side of that and how you can really, truly help others is to be aligned with that person's possibility, succ! ess and pure potential as their greatest self and highest awareness. Let me jump into an example. Say someone is having a relationship issue where they broke up with their boyfriend or girlfriend and had a big fight. If you align with the argument, offering some insight, you are not really helping the other person. "You know what? He is a jerk! You know you should do THIS because he is... etc." Or "Yeah man, she never did this for you. She never did that for you. You are better off doing THIS. You
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